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Harvesting Happiness: Introducing the Empathy Gland

The human body is full of hidden glands hard at work communicating and controlling our body's responses to what's going on around us. When our temperature spikes out of control, the hypothalamus saves the day, returning us to homeostasis. The thymus is our go-to gland for better immune health when we’re feeling sick. And if our blood sugar is out of whack, the pituitary gland regulates it. The body is an intricate system with a biological response to pretty much any hazard our environment throws at us. But what if those hazards have to do with emotions, not body functions?…

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The Importance of Place

By B. Lynn Goodwin. If I am grouchy, please forgive me. My allergy gremlins are at fault. I'm allergic to my eyes and my hair and possibly my skin. My nose demands one tissue after another. I can feel the redness, like raw skin in search of fingernails to scratch it. Everything’s a little blurry, but I have to write anyway, because I found a picture book summer again this morning as I turned down my street on my way home from a trip to Lucky, CVS, and the Danville Library. First I saw three mothers, in skirts and shifts…

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Living the Adventure

By Gail Lynne Goodwin. A very wise man once said, "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself". Sometimes we must take the risk, live the adventure and confront things that might frighten us. Yesterday my husband and I arrived at San Juan Sailing, the premier charter company in the San Juan Islands off the coast of Seattle, Washington, to pick up a yacht for a two-week sail. Her name is Hula Kai, and she's a beautiful 42' Catalina sailboat. We are both avid sailors with more than 20 years of experience, mainly in the Caribbean. Knowing that…

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Today’s Brilliance from Aiden Marin

As a boy who was bullied by my friends and my teacher, I remember feeling alone when I could not play basketball with the other kids and when I would eat lunch alone. It was embarrassing when my teacher would yell at me in front of the class because I would forget things or need extra help. Just because I misspell words it does not mean that kids should tease me. Having special needs does not make me different from the other kids. I learn in a different way so that makes me special. I used to feel hurt by…

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Harvesting Happiness: Discovering Your Inner Political Party

By Lisa Cypers Kamen. I've got a bit of news for those of you who haven't seen the mudslinging TV ads, heard the accusatory radio spots or spotted the big, bold signs on every street corner: It's an election year. Until November, presidential politics will likely dominate your preferred news outlet. It might even sneak into your dinner table conversations and barge in on your break room chats, and it could even motivate you to do a bit of campaigning yourself. Amid all the public pleas and promises of presidential hopefuls, the always-difficult task of deciding what to believe and…

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Valuing The Worth of What You Do

By B. Lynn Goodwin. More than one book in the Bible tells us, "A workman is worthy of his hire." I heartily agree, though I know the process is not always linear. In addition to a workman, a woman, a teenager, a multi-tasker, a mom, a dad, a writer and many more workers are all worthy of their hire, yet people have been known to donate our skills for appreciation or recognition instead of cash. Anyone who contributes constructively to the world is worthy of pay. In this day and age that pay often comes in the form of validation. I’ve done…

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What Would It Take To Say “YES”?

By Gail Lynne Goodwin. Sometimes I think I'm a gypsy. I've lived in 10 states over the last 30 years, and when opportunity knocks, I walk through the door, no matter where it might happen to lead. I’m currently living in New York City for 6 weeks, helping a friend with a project that I believe will change the world. (More details about that later….) Yesterday I met a man named Tom, who, coincidentally, was raised in the same small town in Pennsylvania where I grew up. When he heard that I live in Montana, he went crazy. For the…

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Do What You Know Is Right

We are only 10 and 12 years old, so we still have a lot to learn. But we have co-written a book. Not only did we help our dad write it, but we help tell people about our book. We have done book readings at elementary schools, the YMCA, libraries, and the San Diego Children's Museum. We have done book signing events at Barnes &; Noble, Warwick's Books, Mysterious Galaxy Books, Readers Books, farmer's markets, and book fairs. We have been written about in a bunch of print and web articles. We have had web radio and video interviews. We…

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Harvesting Happiness: Positively Pissed Off (and Loving It!)

By Lisa Cypers Kamen. Have you noticed the bad rap that emotion has been getting lately? Every time you flip on the TV, watch a movie or turn the page in a book, it seems like the emotional character is labeled as the irrational one who’s not strong enough to think things through. In your day-to-day life, anytime you reveal how you really feel, there’s always someone who feels instantly uncomfortable around you. It’s even true with the people you’re closest with: How many times has your anger or disappointment led a loved one to flee the room or prematurely…

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Important Update From Inspire Me Today

We hope this post finds you enjoying a beautiful August. While you've been barbecuing with friends, hanging out at the beach, hiking the mountains or enjoying the best of the season, we've been busy making InspireMeToday.com even better for you. We've made some changes to improve your Inspire Me Today experience: Today's Brilliance is now displayed in full on our homepage, and in the morning newsletter, with a direct link to comment. (For those of you who haven't signed up yet for our newsletter, you can now do so with the sign up field directly below Today's Brilliance on the homepage.) This makes it…

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Finding Love Over 60

By B. Lynn Goodwin. Recently I texted my husband, "From WIFE 22: List 5 positive things about spouse..." I should explain that WIFE 22 is a book about a couple, who grew distant after 20 years. The book shows a middle-aged wife discovering who she is and what she wants out of  life as a participant in an anonymous survey about relationships. The book and its survey fascinated me, even though my husband and I only been married 5 months, so I texted him one of the questions that I could easily lift out of context. My silver-tongued husband wrote…

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How To Get a Good Night’s Sleep: Self Care For Insomniacs Everywhere!

By Kathi Casey. Insomnia is rampant among those over 40. Are you wishing that someone had told you about this before you got here, so that you could have stocked up on your sleep in your 30's? If you are one of the 20 million Americans who feel that it's become "the norm" as well as a frequent topic of conversation at parties and events, that in this day and age it's impossible for anyone over 40 to get a good night's sleep, help is here! All the experts tell us that we need 7 - 8 hours of sleep at night,…

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Today’s Brilliance from Dylan Mahalingam

In 2006, something that I had been wanting for what felt like forever finally happened. It was the year my family got a dog. We named her Nestlé. I had known that there would be changes when Nestlé joined our family, but there was one change that I never anticipated. Before we brought Nestlé home, I remember reading tons of books and watching TV shows like the Dog Whisperer.... My family wanted to know how to take care of our new (and first!) puppy. These books told us that we should assert our role as master right from the start.…

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Harvesting Happiness: What Do The Lines In Your Life Say About You?

By Lisa Cypers Kamen. In geometry class, the line was always my favorite object. Hypothetically, a line has no width or height, which means that in math problems, length was all you had to worry about. Sure, there was the distinction between lines (which could go on forever) and line segments (which had definite beginnings and ends), but regardless of the type, lines always seemed to have the freedom to travel for however long they pleased. The line is still a powerful thing. Think about how many lines we encounter in any typical day: If we’re in a heated argument,…

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Living in the Gray

By Gail Lynne Goodwin. A few days ago I had a conversation with a friend (we'll call him Bob), who was frustrated because he wanted a job opportunity that was offered to one of his coworkers. Bob saw this new opportunity as the answer to his prayers. As you can imagine, when it was offered to someone else, Bob was upset. To him, everything is black or white, and when things didn’t happen in the way that he thought that he needed for them to happen, his entire world crumbled. What Bob didn’t realize was that this situation could be a blessing…

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Today’s Brilliance from Dylan Richards

As cliché; as it sounds, one should pursue their interests. If you find something that inspires and motivates you, then dedicate yourself to it. Think about how you would like to pursue your interest and, like the Nike commercial states, "Just Do It!" Do you want to be an advocate? To learn? To create and deliver a concept? How do you want to channel your enthusiasm? Don't waste time with things you don't care about. Look for something in the world that needs your help, something that you care about, and then commit. My interest in sustainable, local and organic…

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Harvesting Happiness: How to Float and Sting Like Muhammad Ali

By Lisa Cypers Kamen. Boxing icon Muhammad Ali, also known to the world as Cassius Clay, "The People's Champion" or simply, "The Greatest," has just as much talent for words as he does for boxing. Ever since the legendary boxer coined the phrase "float like a butterfly, sting like a bee," people worldwide have been using the famous saying to describe anything that brings beauty or art to a battle situation. (Not sure what I mean? Check out footage of Muhammad Ali's graceful fighting style and you’ll get the picture.) Here in the 21st Century, war is everywhere. It’s the…

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