December, 2015 Archives


15 Tips for Creating The Life You Want

Goethe famously wrote “One lives in this world but once…” If that is the case, ask yourself, “What do I want my life to look like?” Then make it look that way. In making that journey, here are some provisions for your psychological backpack: Do not invite regret into your life. Instead, take chances, try new things, and take the path less traveled. Regret never dissipates, and second chances are rare. Beware of scripting your life…. Storytelling can trap us in other people’s scripts. Let life happen rather than forcing it to fit someone else’s idea of what a life… Read more.

Whatever you get out of life is in direct correlation with what you give.
You can make money or excuses, but not both.

Crossing the Threshold

When you are inspired to do something, whatever it is in you that calls to be expressed, answer the call. Be bold; cross the threshold into uncertainty with the joyous anticipation that you are in fact stepping into your magnificence. And that whatever results will benefit you and others, otherwise you would not have been inspired in the first place. Most of us will not have our life play out in the public eye on Earth’s big stage. Most of us will not discover a cure for a major disease or invent something that changes the way we live. But… Read more.

Inside each of us is a passion flame. Whether it burns us or fires us in the direction of our dreams is purely a matter of choice!
Oh, I can be almost anything, but the one thing I MUST be is ME!
Choose to take control of your life: start living your life by your design and not by default!
Wisdom is a gift gained from the past that serves as the foundation of our future. And, if you share it with others, you are helping them on their life’s journey as well.
Even when times are difficult or challenging – especially when times are difficult and challenging – the present is always an opportunity for us to learn, grow, and become better than we’ve ever been before.
We have the ability to choose and change our situations at any time!

Simple Guidelines for Living the Life You Want

Going through rain, thunder and sunshine in life, I have learned this: Whatever color of the skin on people we all have the same feelings, the same joy, the same fears, the same biology, the same psychology. Yes, on the inside we are all the same. So never judge on the outside. Also be kind to everybody including yourself. Kindness feeds kindness and we need more of that on the globe. This definitely includes never, ever hit your children. Talk to them, show them what is right. Hit and abused children often grow up to be hitting and abusing grown-ups…. Read more.

Don’t let life happen to you. Choose to be a Conscious Creator and shape your future and the future of the planet.
Until we know truth from our heart, it is just a decision between right and wrong. When it is from our heart, there is no decision- we just do what is right.
One day I woke up and realized the only thing stopping me from having uncommon success was… me. That was the beginning of my new and improved life!
Self esteem and self confidence are the prerequisites for happiness and success.
Opportunity is always knocking, but the problem is that most people have the self-doubt station in their head turned up way too loud to hear it.
Life, stripped down to the essence, is being completely open with gratitude for the energy of beingness that is noncausally joyful, peaceful, and contented
True courage is loving another person fully and deeply without requiring or expecting them to feel the same way back.

Tips to Get Through the Holiday Blues

For some, the holiday season is a joyous occasion. For others, holidays bring to the surface feelings that are the complete opposite of Christmas cheer, usually unwrapping sad reminders that may start as early as Halloween. The holidays can be a roller coaster ride of emotions for many. Below are some steps to a smoother journey through the holiday season. A lot of people consider the holiday season one of the loneliest times of the year. Many of my clients who come to me for counseling ask whether they are the only ones who feel this way. Coupling this with… Read more.

Our environment is an extension of our mind. When we change our mind, our life changes.
If you are not where you want to be in life, surround yourself with those who are.
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