How to Make Sure Your Glass is Always Full

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If I could share 500 words to inspire, this is the important wisdom I'd want to pass along to others...

  • Money does not make you rich, character does. There are lots of wealthy people who are absolutely impoverished in character. You cannot buy a reputation for being a person of good character. It is earned by being a respectful, kind and responsible. You are truly wealthy when you accept the greatest legacy you will ever leave is choosing how well you live.

    Be genuinely grateful for what you have in life and tearing up the list of what you do not have will be gratifying. Attitude is everything. Have an attitude of lack, and life will be a never-ending search for the next “thing” to fill the holes within your heart. An attitude of gratitude magically plugs those holes.

    Treating other people as you want to be treated does not mean waiting for them to go first. Leaders lead by “being the change they want to see.” Frustration, anger and disappointment come from waiting for others to go first.

    You cannot change anyone other than yourself. When you change yourself for the better, the world changes for the better because your positive actions influence those who see your behavior. That is why changed people change people, without trying. They lead change by example.

    Every soul is whole no matter how wounded the human being. No matter how low you have gone in life, there is wisdom and strength within you that will get you successfully to the other side. The key is to accept you are not your problems. YOU are bigger than any challenge you face.

    Regardless of what happened to you in the past or how you were mistreated by others, what matters most is how you are treating yourself today. Hurting yourself will never get back at those who hurt you in the first place. The truth is that loving yourself is an excellent way to prove their mistreatment wrong.

    Being gentle with yourself, other people and all life is one of the strongest things you do. Gentleness is not weakness. It takes great strength to have the self-control necessary to be kind.

    You are going to lose a friend and you will find a new friend. You will lose a love and you will find a new love. You will lose a job and you will find a new job. You will lose a bad habit and you will find a good habit. There is gain through loss. Everything changes so don’t get stuck in the hard parts of life. Instead view the challenges as opportunities to grow and you will blossom.

    It’s okay to get angry and frustrated at times. It’s not okay to make these a lifestyle. You are responsible for your own happiness. If life is not going well then it is time for you to do something about it.

    Your glass will only remain half full until you realize you are the one holding the pitcher. Don’t sit around waiting for someone to rescue you. You must be your own superhero.

    Regina Cates

    Regina Cates has one mission in life: she helps people connect to and lead with their heart.Through the sharing of her own personal experiences, Regina communicates universal truths in a down-to-earth manner that everyone can understand. But Regina’s life purpose wasn’t always so clear. Fifteen years ago, she found herself alone and depressed on her forty-third birthday, wondering why life had treated her so unfairly. This emotional bottom resulted in a profound shift in her thinking, and from there her commitment to personal responsibility was born. Regina has not been a victim of anyone or anything since that day. She now teaches others the importance of taking responsibility for one’s own actions, thoughts, and words, and how doing so will transform a victimized state of mind into one of power, purpose, and peace.

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    1. Berthile Claverie
      Berthile Claverie says:

      Wow Regina, Your piece was a magnificent read and so worth the time to step back and soak in all the good words..I loved the piece so much I want to share it with everyone I know..Thank you so much.. Great thoughts come from great people. I pray you have a wonderful holiday and a Happy New Year.


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