You Can Have Everything You Want If You Accept Yourself Unconditionally

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If I could share 500 words to inspire, this is the important wisdom I'd want to pass along to others...

  • I was studying for a high school exam one evening when my grandmother brought me a snack and started to talk to me about life. Almost out of the blue, she told me that no matter what you do in life, “always think big.”

    Her message served as a beacon for me to follow and lead me out of my limiting beliefs. I began high school as a 6 foot tall and 200 lb young man, but on the inside I was struggling. You see, I allowed the people in my life inside my head and let them wreak havoc.

    Growing up, I developed a stuttering problem and was bullied often. I could have easily fought back, but I never really did because I wanted to be liked, make friends and fit in. My home life wasn’t much better. I couldn’t seem to win my father’s approval and no matter what I did, I never seemed to get a pat on the back. He always told me what was wrong, what I was lacking and was ultra-critical of me in anything that I did.

    I was desperate for external validation. My sole purpose in life was to tell others how great I was so that they could in turn tell me that I was okay, that I was good enough, and that there was nothing wrong with me. In other words, I was giving away my power to others’ judgement.

    At 16 years of age, I began to pitch in the local baseball league. One day I took the mound against a team that I could dominate in my sleep. That day I was trying something new with my pitching mechanics which would make me better long term but it was playing havoc with my control. I couldn’t throw a strike. The harder I tried the worse it made it. That’s when I looked into the stands and I saw my Dad sitting there. It was rare for him to come to a game and of all the games for him to come to it had to be this one.

    I saw him after the game and all I wanted was some kind words…. He looked at me and said, “That wasn’t your best game,” and walked away.

    A few years ago, I finally realized why all this happened to me growing up and that I was 100% responsible. The universe was giving me situations to take my power back, make peace with the past and let go. But I never stepped up. Instead I would compromise on what I truly wanted in life and was plagued by so much guilt that I could never have what I wanted. I had a choice to make. I accepted self love, my power and my value to others at the deepest level.

    Three weeks later I got a call from my father. He was upset, which had me concerned because my father doesn’t show emotion. As I anxiously listened for his words, he told me he was going to need a minute. He told me, “I never told you I was proud of you growing up and I should have. I’m just not very good at that kind of thing…. I’ve just been thinking about it recently.”

    Isn’t that interesting… As soon as I saw myself differently inside, I got a call from my father giving me what I wanted to hear.

    Understand how immensely powerful you can be. It’s no coincidence that my father called after I took responsibility for my life. Your external environment will mirror your internal environment.

    What can you get complete with in your life? What situation or pattern frequently exists in your life that you don’t like? It’s not an accident. You’re responsible for their origins.

    Acknowledge that greatness that already lies within you and become the best version of yourself.

    Greg Guyatt

    This athletic entrepreneur got his start in business working for someone else. After an un-inspiring raise and watching one too many people golfing from his office chair, Greg Guyatt realized he was ready to be his own boss. Greg writes, “If there is anybody who is well versed in overcoming their own limiting beliefs, it’s me. I grew up in an ultra critical household with very limited support, developed a stuttering problem, was bullied all through my early years at school. I didn't have many friends which was no surprise considering I had zero confidence and poor self esteem. I had some major self imposed barriers and beliefs about myself that came as a result which I carried with me into adulthood without even knowing it. I didn’t realize how carrying all this baggage with me would limit not only my life’s satisfaction but in everything that I attempted. What made a difference to me was some very special people that I met along my journey who started the healing process and helped me realize I was much more than the person who I was programmed to be. It's my duty in life to be the person to others who are capable of greatness but they just don't yet realize it. It was this mission that led me to write my first book on Embracing Your Greatness. When we realize the only expectations we have to live up to are our own, we're free to do whatever we want to in life."

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    1. Patrick
      Patrick says:

      Thank you Greg, that is how my life was growing up. I have an older brother, and always played second best. I took control of my life 9 years ago, and my life is so much better.. Thank you .


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