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Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is a relationship expert, best-selling author, and co-creator of and ;the powerful Inner Bonding®; healing process, recommended by actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette and featured on Oprah.

She has counseled individuals and couples, and led groups, classes, and workshops for the last 45 years, and continues to work on the phone and Skype with clients from all over the world. She is the author/co-author of eight books, including the internationally best-selling Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?, Healing Your Aloneness, Inner Bonding, and Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By God?

In 2010, Margaret co-completed a 12 year project called SelfQuest®;, which is a transformational self-healing/conflict resolution software program. SelfQuest®; is being offered to prisons and schools and sold to individuals, families, and businesses - In addition, Margaret offers a powerful relationship e-Course called The Intimate Relationship Toolbox as well as a Permanent Weight Loss course.

Margaret has three children and three grandchildren. In her spare time, she loves to paint, read, make pottery, and ride her horse.

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How to Learn to Love Yourself, Rather Than Abandon Yourself

When I was a young woman, I believed that life was about getting - getting love, approval, recognition, validation, money, success... getting what I thought I wanted. But if today were my last day of this planet, getting something would be the last thing on my mind. I would be focused on sharing love. That's it. That's all. That's everything. There is a major confusion in our culture about love. Somehow, most people have come to believe it is getting love from another or others that feels the best, and they spend much energy trying to get love. They try…

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