When we are young, life seems endless, days last forever and we feel invincible. As the years creep by, and you hit those twilight years the days ahead are shorter, move faster and you feel anxious because you are running out of time and have not accomplished all you wanted to do.
A few years ago, I was in a serious car accident. My car was going uncontrollably fast off the interstate towards a large tree. My life quickly running through my head, I thought of my family whom I would be leaving prematurely. Then I reconciled and said, “Lord, I am yours.” At that very moment, it was if God spun the car so that the impact was on the side and not head-on. As I hung on tightly and squeezed my eyes shut, I felt the car roll and roll and roll. Suddenly I heard the voice of a truck driver, yelling for me to get out of the car, that it was smoking and would catch on fire. I escaped with only minor eye lacerations from the broken glass.
After the accident, I wondered about the meaning of my life. What was I spared to do? If I only had one day left, what words of wisdom would I pass on to humanity? I have often wondered about this question. What can I leave behind to improve people’s lives on earth?
These words are what come to mind: “Impossible” is for those people who do not have determination to make it possible.
You are only limited by the restrictions you place on yourself. As a parent, I always instructed my children that “can’t” is not a word in their vocabulary. That has remained etched in their minds even to this today. I’ve taken this message to students as I mentored and volunteered with at-risk children in low performing schools. This simple message has encouraged them to excel.
What matters most is to believe in yourself and treat others with respect and compassion. Love who you are and embrace the beautiful creature that God has made. Don’t let naysayers feed your doubts. We all have the God-given power within to overcome challenges and rise above any turmoil to succeed. The key is to believe and have faith that you can. The hard times you go through are just building, strengthening and preparing you for greatness.
Remember that even the most brilliant diamond was created under extreme pressure. Be that diamond that shines brilliantly. With that light you will be able to help others see.
Beautiful. Thank you for your words today!!
This was wonderful.
Thanks S. Whatever occurs, God has approved. We don’t understand why, but our pain and trials are no accident to Him who guides our lives. He is always molding us to be his shining gem.
Inspirational writeup…the possibilities are endless! G-d has a way of waking us up and kicking us out of our comfort zones when we refuse to live up to the greatness within us!
Peers, coworkers, and individuals that I have met and interacted with tend to gravitate to my positive thinking and I have my mother to thank for that positive way of thinking. I don’t know what any of us would do without you. Everything you have taught me has been applied to my everyday life and to every situation. You taught me to help others, stay strong for what you believe in, and never give up. those are life lessons that I will never negate I love you mom.
Awesome & Motivational. You are an inspiration to Many!!!
AMC-W thanks for your comment. Every day is an opportunity to become what He wants you to be. You have been a blessing pass on that blessing to someone else.
Thanks for the beautiful write up.
Awesome i would like to meet with Jennifer
Thank you for sharing. Hearing your words has set me into high gear. I appreciate the remainder.
Reminder, not remainder.
Thanks Ms. Jennifer Carroll,
Perhaps someday I’ll be able to express my gratitude to you in person for the greatness to be unleashed from within my soul, this is not a joke. Your short but truthful writings are exactly what I needed today.
With love and gratitude,
Michael A. Stilinovich
The word impossible itself suggests Im -possible
Very well written👍😊!
Jennifer Carroll’s reflection in “Pressure Makes The Diamond” is a powerful reminder of resilience and determination. Through her personal experience, she emphasizes the importance of pushing past limitations, believing in oneself, and embracing life’s challenges as opportunities for growth. Just as diamonds are formed under pressure, so too are we shaped by our trials, emerging stronger and more brilliant.
Jennifer Carroll’s inspiring story, “Pressure Makes The Diamond,” reflects on how life’s challenges shape us for greatness. After surviving a serious car accident, she pondered the purpose of her life and shared powerful insights: determination makes the “impossible” possible, and hard times are meant to strengthen us. Carroll encourages self-belief, compassion, and resilience, reminding us that, like a diamond, we are shaped under pressure to shine and help others see.