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Here’s what I know for sure: finding true love is possible for any one at any age if you’re willing to prepare yourself, on all levels, to become a magnet for love.

This wonderful Universe of ours is set up to deliver the people and things we draw to us that our consistent with our personal belief system. If you don’t believe you will ever find the ONE, then, guess what? You get to be right… you probably won’t.

If, however, you learn to believe that the ONE is not only out there but is ALSO LOOKING FOR YOU, then true love can be yours.

The basic Law of Attraction states that you will attract to you those things that match your state of belief.

Believing that your soulmate is out there is critical to the preparation of manifestation.

I believe that the Universe is always mirroring back to us our beliefs about our selves and the world. If we believe the world is a loving and friendly place, then most of the time that will be our experience. But, if we believe the world is a chaotic, stressful and fearful place, then that becomes our reality. So, believing and knowing that your soulmate is out there is the most important part of the formula.

What if I told you that it’s not your job to know HOW your soulmate is going to appear? What if I told you it’s only your job to be ready, willing and open to love. Think about it this way: you really don’t know where air comes from but you do believe that it’s always there for you, right?

The same is true for love. It’s there for you. It’s always been there for you. You just need to remember the love that you are and once you do, the Universe will deliver to you the perfect soulmate.

Here is what worked for me and I know it can work for you: When I was in my early forties I decided to manifest my soulmate using everything I had ever learned about manifestation, psychology, spirituality, and the Law of Attraction. My intentions became crystal clear while I simultaneously cleared out the clutter in my house AND in my heart. I learned and invented techniques, rituals, visualizations and prayers that helped me prepare my body, mind, spirit and home for an amazing relationship. And they worked. I met my husband, Brian, who has exceeded all of my desires and expectations. He was and is everything I ever wished for.

Big love is possible for any one of any age if you are willing to become a magnet for love. Continue to live each day in the knowingness that you are in a loving, committed relationship as you savor the waiting for your beloved to arrive.

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Arielle Ford has mastered the art of making things happen. Whether generating widespread news coverage, creating a successful special event or launching leaders in the field of human potential, Arielle knows who, what, when, where and how to do it.

As the Director of Publicity for Spiritual Cinema Circle and Earth Cinema Circle, Arielle brings 25 years of experience, creativity and personal contacts to secure unprecedented results. Prior to January 2004, Arielle ran her own PR firm, The Ford Group, which she founded in 1987. Her clients included bestselling authors, new products, tourism bureaus, world class hotels, non-profit organizations and fundraisers, Fortune 500 companies, real estate, medical spas, world class athletes, the sports of professional boxing, wrestling, tennis, golf, indoor soccer, sports car racing, beauty pageants, and astronauts.

Arielle Ford has helped launch the careers of Deepak ChopraJack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen (Chicken Soup for the Soul series); and Neale Donald Walsch (Conversations With God). She has also handled publicity for Wayne Dyer, Dean Ornish, Debbie Ford, Gary Zukav, Marianne Williamson, Louise Hay, Joan Borysenko, don Miguel Ruiz, Kenny Loggins and many other notable authors, 11 of whom became #1 on the New York Times bestseller list.

In addition to her work as a book strategist and publicist, Arielle is also the author of six books, including the Hot Chocolate For The Mystical Soul series. Her latest books are The Soulmate Secret and Wabi Sabi Love.

Her 25 CD set and resource guide, Everything You Should Know About Publishing, Publicity and Building a Platform, is a favorite among first-time authors and has received rave reviews.

She is the creator of The Soulmate Kit: How To Prepare to Manifest and Meet Your Soulmate. This multimedia product contains a two hour DVD, 3 audio CD's and a workbook on how to use the Law of Attraction to manifest BIG LOVE.

Arielle is the co-producer of Deepak Chopra's Happiness Prescription, a new PBS pledge show that aired nationally in March 2008 and is to be distributed on DVD by Gaiam.

Currently Arielle lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband Brian Hilliard. In her spare time she raises money for, reads historical thrillers, loves traveling to India and exotic locales and truly believes there is enough love in the world for everyone.



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  1. My question is this – Can’t I have a happy, fulfilling life without a partner? I have tried twice and chosen unwisely, maybe I am one of those people who is meant to be happy and fulfilled on my own. Of course, sometimes I get lonely and it would be nice to have someone to hug every day, but are we not complete and whole individuals regardless of our “relationship status?” I have struggled with this question a lot. I have joined all the “good” dating sites and never seem to get much attention except from men wanting only a sexual relationship. Perhaps it is not in my destiny to have a mate.
    How do I know?

    1. I agree Lind, each to their own but I’m single & perfectly happy being so! I have lots of supportive friends – male & female. I think relationships are overrated & often cause more trouble than they’re worth. Look at all the billions of species of animals on this planet & see how many stay with one partner for their entire life; virtually none of them! Let’s face it, most humans are unable to stay with one partner for their entire life, the variables of compatibility are just to random and vast. Above all, it’s just illogical. Nature knows best!

    2. If you can’t have a happy fulfilling life without a partner, then you can’t have a happy fulfilling life with a partner. the question you should ask yourself is; How would I like to have someone in my life that adores me, and is my best friend, and is always there for me? If the answer to that is yes, then you should know that it is possible for you. Yes, you can have it, and yes you deserve it. Usually people that say that they dont want a partner just dont think that they can ever have a good relationship. Figure out what you want, and then be happy with your decision. The important thing is for you to just be happy.

    3. If you wanna be happy,be ready to sacrifice your happiness to someone else, you earn happiness when you give it out unconditionally, don’t expect someone to make you happy first.

  2. I think relationships that are mature and mutually loving give us something rich Part of it is the physical affection you crave and the other part is sharing your experiences your thoughts with someone who cares and who you can count on to be there for you. You can find that partially with girlfriends and Pets and do fine but something may be missing–The sexual relationship for one. My advice would be to find your way to releasing the emotional reactions to your past relationships, align yourself with exactly the kind of relationship you want and like Ariel said It will come. Wishing this for you. Heather
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  3. I’m 71 and my solidtitude is precious 2 me. but, I still would desire A partner-of-the opposite.I don’t care 2 leave the Earth without expdricencing TRUE- Perxenal-LOVE.(joann)

  4. I would like to know specifics about the techniques used,I am single for a very long long time. I made a very dumb decision years ago and got stuck with an abusive individual who continues to stalk me 5 years after the relationship end. I did not visualize that! So I do not want to make another mistake.

  5. Quote: So, believing and knowing that your soulmate is out there is the most important part of the formula. Unquote. Thank you, Arielle:) I believe it too. if we just be happy, as I believe, happiness is inside ourselves, and do what we love, have an open heart, let the life goes with the flow, suddenly the soulmate is just in the front of you, and the minute you meet, then you know and hear what your heart tells you, you will not miss it and it is the right one. It’s not necessary you fall in love at first sight, but there is something your heart tells you, the person you meet makes you feel comfortable and secured. Nothing to do with the materials, just your feeling. That’s how I experienced it.

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