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Many of us are confused as to how to get our life completely in balance and in harmony. It all begins with a commitment to work on ourselves.

Some of us get so caught up in daily life that it can become monotonous and robotic. There has to be a way to shift out of this, make some amazing changes, and move forward with enthusiasm. The good news is that there are numerous ways. Sometimes, one small shift and your entire life can change in enormous and amazing ways.

If you can say that you have harmony in all areas of your life, it is almost 100% guaranteed that you will feel more empowered, free and happy. This means that you know your true self. You have control over your ego and you’re aligned with your life purpose. To achieve this and to feel this way, start by rating everything important in your life on a scale from 1 to 10.

Once you get your life to a 10, you can keep growing, and get your life to a 13 or 20. Getting your life to a 10 Plus is possible for everyone.

The first step is to believe it will happen. Your thoughts are more significant and powerful than you think. Focus on positive thoughts and banish all negative self-talk and beliefs.

The second step is to get in alignment with your life purpose. If you’re not sure what it is yet, you can state that your life purpose is to become the best you possible by getting in line with your true self.

The third step is to learn and grow. Begin to read inspirational books, listen to CDs in the car, and attend seminars. It will change your life. Your thinking will become clearer. Your thoughts will be more positive. This investment in yourself will allow you to help others just by being you.

The fourth step is to start evaluating your life and to identify what needs changing. Once you make the space by getting rid of anything negative, you make room for greatness to enter.

The fifth step is to seek those who can help you get to that next level of success with positive influence and guidance. Be around positive people and form or join a mastermind group.

The sixth step is goal setting. It’s best to pick about three goals to start with. Make sure that they are in line with your true self and to word them positively. Take steps daily towards these goals.

The seventh and most important step is value. Make sure that what you are regularly reading, where you are going, who you are with, and what you are doing are matching that of which you see yourself becoming.

Be sure that you are taking action daily on getting your life to this high level of happiness and success, and soon you will realize that your life has gotten to a 10 Plus!

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Kim Somers Egelsee is an inspirational speaker, life coach, author and columnist. She specializes in helping people get every area of their lives to a “ten plus”, exude confidence and discover their life’s purpose.

Kim has a degree in Speech Communication and credentials in Educational Psychology with over 8 years experience life coaching, over 12 years in the field of special education with both children and adults with an emphasis on behavior modification, and is also a SAG member and has worked in the entertainment industry for over 18 years hosting, acting and producing.

Kim is the founder of Willow Tree Women’s Circle L.A. and O.C. and three Mastermind Groups, writes for several newspapers, has a CD out now, and 2 books and a web series with Spirit Clips coming out at the end of 2012.

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