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A few days ago I visited my favorite beach in the British Virgin Islands, Loblolly, on the tiny island of Anegada. Only 12 miles long and less than 25′ in elevation, Anegada has less than 200 residents. A handful of sailors brave the tricky entrance across miles of coral reefs to visit Anegada. I love it for the simplicity and connection I feel from the sheer beauty and the solitude. We set out to play on my favorite beach, Loblolly.P10608511

This visit was no different, except for an invitation from Charlie, the bartender at the little beach bar, The Big Bamboo.  Charlie pointed out the signs all over the exterior of his bar and invited me to create one. First of all, there were hundreds of signs- literally- and I never “saw” them. They were right in front of my eyes yet I never said, “Gee, I wonder who made these and perhaps I should make one too!”, even though the signs were right in front of me. I was always focused on getting to the beach and have always walked right by the bar.

P1060861Charlie told me to go find a piece of wood and handed me a magnifying glass. He showed me on a small sample piece, how just focusing the concentrated beam of sunlight would burn the wood, enabling me to write whatever message I chose to create. Holding the magnifying glass at the right angle would create a tiny flame and the resulting small plume of smoke and allow me to write a message on the wood.

It took me nearly an hour to find the right piece of wood, which had been washed up on the beach. Then I began the process of burning the letters into the wood to create a permanent mark. The process required a great deal on concentration, for if you changed the focus on the sun’s rays by moving the glass or changing the angle,  it would burn the wood where I didn’t want it to write.  Daydreaming wasn’t an option for it left a permanent mark in the wrong place.


I decided to write “ May 2010” on my sign.

P1060928Just as I got started a cloud blotted out the rays of the sun, diminishing the effectiveness of my “work”. I had to be patient and wait until the cloud moved for only the concentrated, focused rays of the sun were strong enough to create the burn on the wood.

I couldn’t help but see the parallel between my efforts and life. How many times have I been oblivious to the signs all around me? How many times have I lost focus? How many times have I lost patience when a cloud of life blocked my energy? Creating this physical sign was a tangible exercise in the power of focus. Without having patience it wouldn’t work. Without focusing the energy of the sun into one spot it wouldn’t work. Without paying attention with continual focus, it wouldn’t work.

This entire experience made me wonder, how many other “signs” are there in my life that I’m ignoring? Where am I losing focus and writing the wrong message? The sun is  very powerful, but without focus, even the sun couldn’t burn a message into the wood. Like the sun, what opportunities am I missing due to lack of  focus?

I’m taking the metaphorical magnifying glass to my life and examining where I’m putting my energy and focus, and making sure it’s on the things that matter most. With concentrated focus, anything is possible- even leaving a permanent mark on the world…. in this case in the form of a sign, hanging at a little beach bar on a tiny island in the Caribbean.

If you ever get to Loblolly, look for the sign and perhaps you’ll see where I left my mark. 🙂


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This Post Has 13 Comments

  1. Good word Gail. Focus is every bit as important as vision. Even a visionary can be dead in the water if he looses focus. Great word picture / sign 🙂

  2. If you focus on something the light will bring energy… just like your magnifying glass burned the wood. Energy is the highest goal – it;s what we do with the energy that brings about the greatest good and change. I love this article… you can’t believe it until you experience the focus

    1. Andrea, you are such an inspiration to me. Thank you for your kind comments and for joining us this week!

  3. Dear Gail,

    I know how hard you worked and focused to complete this inspiration. It would have been so easy to give up with the clouds blocking the sunlight, the wind, the snake, and your friends interrupting.

    I’m proud of you for not giving up and honored to be your friend who saw you in action on a glorious beach.

    Joy to you today and always,


    1. Jeanette, thank you for taking the fabulous photos of my efforts with the sun. I’m so glad you joined us on this adventure!

  4. Jeanette, thank you for taking the photos of me burning this sign! I’m so grateful you joined us on this adventure, and blessed for your friendship. Big hugs!


  5. interesting. I wrote an article this morning on focus as well. Maybe something was in the air. I think the thing that impedes most peoples progress is distraction. Sometimes we mistake signs for distractions, and other times distractions are the signs.
    Thanks for making me think.

  6. Gail … You never cease to amaze me. Your simple trip to the beach turns into a life lesson that truly “inspired me today” .. Great post!!!!!!

  7. Love this post and it was great to talk to you about your experience on the beach. There are some many wonderful and exciting things possible today/Like you, I sometimes have trouble finding the power of focus. I’m find myself being the Will Rogers of ideas….”I never met one I didn’t like.” You’ve inspired me to put on my asset-based thinking lenses to do two things….look harder and deeper at the best assets and opportunities around me and magnify what’s best to make the most of what’s next.

    Thanks again for the inspiration.

    Hank Wasiak

    1. Hank, thanks for the comment. I agree, it was great to talk with you today too!

      Focus is a problem for so many entrepreneurs because everything looks like a great idea. When you can see potential in everything it’s hard to stay with one thing. I keep reminding myself that I am holding the magnifying glass- and I alone determine the power of the focus. I’m such a tangible person that this was a great lesson for me. Go buy a magnifying glass and try it… you’ll see what I mean.

      I hope to see you in the Caribbean soon- and I’ll take you to this bar to show you my sign.

      Thanks and hugs,


  8. Hi Gail..
    That’s one of my favorite places in the world as well! We’ve tweeted back and forth about our love of sailing and the islands! We’re heading back on July 30th and I can’t wait to get to Anageda… it’s just so simply amazing!


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