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There are two things we typically don’t talk about- politics and religion.

Yesterday I received an email from a friend out of the blue, telling me in a harsh way that unless I adopt the same religious beliefs he has, I’ll never be happy. Funny thing is, I haven’t talked with this friend in months, and even more interesting- I am happy!

Because his chosen religion has brought joy to his life, his way of loving others is now sharing these beliefs with them. His religion teaches him that it’s his job to reach out and convert others to his religion. Personally, I believe that someone’s religious or spiritual beliefs are theirs and theirs alone. It’s not my business. It’s not for me to judge, but rather, to love them regardless of what path they choose to follow.

What struck me the most was the contradiction for my friend to reach out and criticize, when the basis of his religion and most others teaches one thing- love. Instead, why not just reach out with love?

Imagine a religion that didn’t feel the need to have everyone be alike, that accepted diversity and multiple paths and one that taught only love. Why is it that we’re so quick to condemn, to judge and to disapprove when someone’s opinions or beliefs differ from our own? Why does that threaten us so? Everest

Many years ago I studied with a Rabbi who shared an analogy with me that I hold dear even today. Picture yourself at the entrance to a path in front of you leading up a mountain. From where you stand, you are confident that this must be the only path up the mountain.

So, you start walking up your path to meet God, the Universe or whatever term you call that Divine source energy. As you walk, you invite others on your path too. Sometimes you will even attempt to convince others that this is the only path- for it is the only one you can see from your vantage point.

However, it isn’t until you are part of the way up to the destination that you can see other paths converging, all leading to the same top of the mountain. We have to be far enough up our own path to recognize that there’s more than one way to reach the peak. The important thing is that we find our path and walk in the right direction- allowing our brothers and sisters to find and walk their own as well.

The disappointment I personally have with organized religion is this… reaching out with criticism and judgment to convince someone to be loving is the biggest oxymoron I can think of.

We tend to put labels on people so that we can keep things in little boxes- this one is a Jew, this one is a Christian, this one is a Muslim and so on. Instead, what if we realize we are truly brothers and sisters and we can learn to love regardless of different paths? Fotolia Holding Hands

I actually received an email from a gentleman asking a question about our Global Hug Tour. He wanted to know, “Are you just flying around the world spreading unconditional love, hope and making the world a better place, or are you sharing Jesus’ teachings?” I was struck by his comment- for to me, they are one in the same. Isn’t unconditional love, hope and making the world a better place what most religions are based on in the first place?

If we spent more time focusing on the 90% of most religious beliefs we can agree on- LOVE, instead of arguing over the 10% where we may have different opinions, I believe the world would be a better place for all of us.

Want to change the world? A hug works better than a stick. Reach out and wrap your arms around someone- for real or even virtually. Share love. Share support. Be there for one another. Find what someone is doing right and spend time complimenting that instead of telling them what they’re doing wrong. Catch someone doing something right and share recognition and praise. Make someone feel good today just by sharing love.

No matter what, love is always the answer. Or as my favorite songwriter says, Love’s the Only Road To Travel. Let’s go find some fun ways to share love and show it in our world today- no matter someone’s religion, no matter their beliefs. Let’s just share love and see what happens.

You are all my sisters and my brothers and I love you- just as you are in this very moment.

I welcome your stories and comments below.

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Gail Lynne Goodwin is the founder of, bringing the best inspiration to the world. provides free inspiration, each day from a new Inspirational Luminary, to a global community of folks from over 150 countries. Gail has interviewed many well-known names including Sir Richard Branson, Guy Laliberte, Seth Godin, Tony Hseih, Gary Vaynerchuk, Michael Gerber, Marci Shimoff, Jack Canfield and hundreds more. According to Mashable, Gail was one of 2009's Top 25 Most Inspirational People on Twitter.

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This Post Has 8 Comments

  1. Thank you for the lovely post. It is true that love does conquer all. The simple act of saying “I love you” cuts through all forms of anger and heals immediately. Religions have their purpose and are sign posts usually revolving around the teachings of a self realizes person, but interestingly not set up by them. Always the primary message is love.


    1. Hi Andy,

      There are so many songs that say it so well…. All ya need is love. Why is that so hard for the world to grasp?

      Reaching out to you today with thanks, love and hugs.


  2. I came across an interesting analogy when reading the works of Vivekananda, one of the Hindu gurus and philosophers.

    He uses the example of the photograph of a loved one, who has passed away. When you see the photo hanging on a wall, it reminds you of the person whom you loved so dearly. You don’t see it as just a piece of paper, with colored ink sprayed on it!

    And while some people will require that mental jog of seeing a photograph to be reminded of the loved one, others might be able to recall such memories even without that trigger – while still others won’t ever forget their love, and so don’t need to ‘remember’.

    Worship of God is like that.

    Some followers need idols, images and physical indicators to focus their mind on the thought of God. Others can manage without a physical object. And yet others will be so involved that they are in a constant state of engagement with God.

    And no matter where on the scale we are, whether we believe we are on a ‘higher’ plane than others or ‘lesser’, we must learn to accept and respect the others – because, ultimately, we are all on the same path to seeking God.

    That teaching, imbibed at an early stage in my spiritual development, has helped me remain very tolerant of religious diversity. And since, I’ve found many teachers of scriptures of various religions saying the same thing in slightly different ways… but the diversity of the learners’ minds also ensures that it will be learned, understood and interpreted differently.

    And isn’t that, too, an example of the diversity we should embrace – and accept?


    1. Dear Dr. Mani,

      Yes, it is. Diversity abounds, and I personally believe that’s a good thing.

      I greatly appreciate your comments on this blog. It was a difficult one to write. As always, your brilliance shines through.

      Dr. Mani, the world is a better place because of you. Thank you for being in my life.

      Big hugs,


  3. Good post Gail. I am glad to see so much time and thought was put into writing an article on something everyone is faced with from time to time. You are right on. Keep it up. I am glad to see the inspiration continues to grow.

    1. Hi Jay,

      Great to hear from you. Glad you liked the post.

      The inspiration will always continue to grow. Thanks for being a part of the beginning of IMT.

      Hugs to you,


  4. This couldn’t have been better said, Gail, thank you for always saying it so well. And of course, for identifying yourself as a sister on a similar path, ultimately to love and for love. How blessed we are in that moment when we are truly aware of how un-alone we really are. <3

  5. This is a wonderful post Gail, and I think there are a great many more of us today that share your thinking than there may have been twenty or even ten years ago. I’m very grateful to see daily the reflection of a world waking up to Love and detaching from the old habits of judgment and contempt prior to investigation.

    I’ve had a lovely little inspiration come to me in recent weeks that aligns very well with your post here – one that I’ve had posted up on Facebook for a bit: “There is no sense spending time arguing over Truth. Truth has countless languages, yet ultimately one translation. Our time is well spent as humble students of the Translator within.”

    Thank you for continuously sharing the Light that we ALL are.

    Great big hugs. ~ Patrick

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