I look within each person who has given up on themselves. If I had imaginary eyes, I would go within each person finding the darkest part of their lives and I would turn the light on those dark areas of their mind, body and soul.
When it is dark no one can find their way. We stumble and become confused. When you turn the light on, you can find your way. Once the light is on, you will find the beauty within. You will no longer find thoughts like “I’m not good enough, pretty enough, smart enough, can’t do nothing right, everyone hates me.”
Life has its way of beating people down, whether through their environment, relationships or loss of employment, just to name a few. Some give up on themselves. They have allowed society to turn their light out. When they don’t know what to do, they shrug their shoulders and turn to other things to satisfy the hurt.
I can see the sadness on their faces. Some may smile to cover the pain, some may use drugs to self-medicate, and some may turn to a life of criminal activities. I don’t assume nor do I judge one’s situation – I just let my light shine in those painful dark areas.
My imagination of light would overshadow all the negatives and replace them with positive thoughts. Just like a light switch, once it is turned on, all the darkness will fade away and you’ll no longer afraid of the dark.
The sadness in some people’s faces leads me to turn the light switch on. When I find someone whose light is dull, or even blown out, I take my light helping them with encouraging words, by listening, or by sharing my experiences. This will help them know that they do have self worth. I always ask those in darkness to list three positive attributes.
This help them to stop thinking that they have no value. Most can easily express the darkness, and all the negatives in the dark places of their lives, yet it’s hard for them to speak about the positive. I would share with them to dig deep within to find their strength. I would tell them to dig deep within. Some may look puzzled, even perplexed and only see the darkness.
But once they see the light, somehow they began to find something positive to say about themselves. All they needed was for someone to listen and give encouraging words. Then, there’s the light.
It’s only then one can see the beauty within.