Your identity is who you are; however, it is more than your name, address, and social security number. Your true identity of why you are here lies deep in the recesses of your subconscious and spirit.
Oftentimes, we identify ourselves by the difficult life experiences, trials, rejections, and obstacles we’ve had to overcome. When we fail to overcome the obstacles, we then begin to look for our identity in other people and possessions. Once we lose our identity, many negative things can fall into our lives by choice, not by chance.
So how can you tell if you are a victim of identity theft? Ask yourself these questions:
Do you worry what others think and ignore your own beliefs, values and opinion?
Do you give more importance to how other people will feel about your decisions rather than considering your own point of view?
Of course we all need to consider other people to be decent and sensitive. But if we care too much what others think, we live by our imaginations of others’ thoughts. Ask yourself this critical question: Are you living a true authentic purposeful life? Learning to own your identity, and define your passions and purpose, will place you on a path of growth and success that is unparalleled.
We must understand who we are and what we want from our lives and not leave these critical life choices and decisions in the hands of someone else. As humans, we all need validation, acceptance, and approval from those we love. But if others neglect to design their own lives, how do we expect them to design ours? The sooner we let go of what others think and truly believe in ourselves, our dreams, abilities, and authentic gifts, the sooner we will be headed toward the life of our dreams.
Picture yourself receiving a beautifully wrapped Tiffany jewelry box. You are so very anxious to open it to retrieve the contents inside. Once the box is opened, and the beautiful 4-carat brilliant rare one-of-a-kind diamond is revealed, you discard the box and cherish, nourish, and take care of the diamond because of its value. The value of the “rare diamond” appreciates over time.
I use this analogy because it describes the value we possess inside of us yet most people place their value on the external extrinsic tangible items and possessions in their life. The power, value, beauty, uniqueness, and one-of-a-kind authenticity we possess on the inside is ours to build up or tear down.
Regardless of what is going on in the world around us (murder, suicide, addiction, bullying, abuse, and toxic mindsets), we have choices of whether we want to get caught up in the vortex of the negativity it brings or we can focus on the internal intrinsic value we possess which is where the true power of who we are, why we’re here, what are our unique gifts, and what difference and contributions we can make in the world lies.
OMG! This message has blessed my entire day!!!!! I needed to hear this, thank you Ms. Holloway Hill!!!!!
Thank you ever so kindly Joy!
Wow! Truly inspirational and sooooooo on time for me and where I am in life right now. I must stop worrying about what others think and live my OWN life! Thank you so much!
Your kind words mean a lot!
WOW! Just no words other than WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!
AMEN!
Thank you for your inspirational communication above! Today I heard on the radio “Do not fear to Fail for with God you will not fail so why spend time worrying” . This aligns with that in not wanting to fail in the eyes of others so we look for acceptance to determine our worth. No matter what anyone thinks, says or feels… We cannot fail in Gods eyes so we should look only to his acceptance for our own personal/spiritual growth! Thank you! -Marilyn Farmer
Doesn’t it feel good when the stars & universe align to help you discover your purpose? Keep believing!
Absolutely great words to live by….how inspiring. Thank you Cathy for reminding us where our true value lives and more importantly, not to let anyone take it from us. I will use your words to help nurture and grow the inner me….the authentic me.
awesome!!!
Dear Cathy….You Are Amazing And Awesome
This article is something that few of us think about but all of us get caught up in! Not allowing others to own your identity is a critical ingredient in designing your life accordingly with God’s plan! Bravo Cathy & keep using your gifts to change lives!
What an amazingly powerful message! Knowing who you are and owning your own identity is the key to understanding your purpose in life. Cathy Holloway Hill you knocked it out of the ballpark! GREAT JOB!!!!
I’d like to share this brilliance – how can I share it??!??
Wow! Something we need to post and read Daily! THANK YOU!
Wow!!! Loved every piece of this article! It was right on time and had so many grains of truth throughout the whole article. Great and very inspiring information!!
The day my person let go of the opinions others, about me, Free Indeed was my new space to dwell in. Others opinions are their issues and problems! One Love…
This woman right here… She hit it! This really spoke to me. Loved the message.
Very well said Cathy, and so on point! I love the analogy of the diamond. It truly illustrates the value we should place on our own self image and self worth!
Cathy, this is so awesome, not just for the article but for the message! You inspire, equip, impact and encourage us to soar! Thank you, your work is stellar and your heart is gold!
I am astonished to be mentored by such a wise woman and I totally agree about having the choice to be stuck in the vortex of negitivity. Your so amazing
This amazing spirit is one of the FEW people on this planet that truly GETS IT, LIVES IT, AND LOVES IT! Cathy Holloway Hill is living her passion and purpose accordingly with God’s orchestrated plan for her life. She is such a powerful voice and I truly wish wish wish wish wish she could get MORRRRRRRE exposure because the world needs her wisdom…..BADLY!!!!
This article brings so much attention to things we don’t ever think about, and it could easily leave one speechless. This speaks to the depth and soul of each of us. This is a true individual who understands life, and I agree with one of the comments that this person needs MUCH more exposure. Our world is in bad shape, and this individual has the gift to reach the masses. Thank you for sharing this today!
These words were more powerful for me than you realize! Right on time – THAAAANK YOU
I typically don’t come to motivational sites but I ran across this because a friend told me to check it out & I’m SO glad I did! This lady is ON FIRE with this message!
OMG OMG OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’ve NEVER heard it explained like this and this hits home and resonates soooooooooo very much for me. I have been struggling a lot lately with this exact issue and this article truly helped to put everything in much better perspective. Thaaaaaaank you sooo much Cathy Holloway Hill! You are truly a special human being!
Fantastic message Cathy…best read all month! Keep encouraging and inspiring as you always do…and I’ll keep listening and learning.
I simply cannot say enough great things about this profound article! Who Owns Your Identityy gets right down to business answering some of the deepest, soul searching questions many have had for years but didn’t know how to as. It’s almost as if the Cathy Holloway Hill has seen into the inner-workings of my mind! Excellent article!
STELLAR!!!!!!
I’ve seen you grow to levels that neither of us never dreamed possible but you are changing the world and I’m so proud so impressed and so thrilled!!!!! Keep making a difference because this article is outstanding!
You state it clearly and on point Cathy!
I love the notion of identity theft being something we allow others to steal from us. We allow the negative vortex to suck us into it rather than realizing we have the power to be positive, strong and to love ourselves. Amen sister!
You are definitely speaking truth! This is something everyone needs to hear.
self(identification) is the best, if not the only place to begin: it may be the worst place in the world to end up(arrested development/dwelling on or wallowing in a past that’s gone), but each of us has to begin somewhere…..; what better place than a solid base: thanx for sharing
Thank you for such an amazing and powerful message! We all need this!!
Awesome! You are so deserving of everything amazing coming your way! You’re a beautiful blessing to so many!
So many times I’ve asked myself why I make c train choices & do things I really don’t want to do. This pits life in a new perspective that I’d never thought about. Stellar writing!
Hey Cathy, you threw me a curve ball. I was thinking with your former IT background, if I remember correctly, you were going to talk about “Identity Theft” as it relates to stealing credit card info and those types of things. But you are talking about something much more important than just financial things. To lose one’s identity because we are intimidated by others, to not have the self confidence to have a fruitful and happy life, is the worst type of “Identity Thief”. I think you nailed it with this post. Why to go.
RIGHT ON TIME!!!! for where I am today in my life. This truly inspired me on this day, and something I will carry with me going forward. This is another confirmation that knowing who I am truly helps me to understand my purpose in life. Again you continue to help me to keep pushing forward. You mean so much to me. I thank God for having you in my life. Keep doing what you are doing. You are an awesome, amazing woman.
Thank You Darling + Good Vibes
thank you!
Only a touch and go. Never really explain “Who are you really?”
Don’t understand your comment. Who am I really? Read my bio, and it provides all the info you’re curious about regarding who I am
Thank you for your article, a healthy reminder for us to be honest and true to ourselves. I used to find it so easy to try and be a “people pleaser” instead of honoring my own opinions, developing my own character, and expressing my own thoughts and feelings. As a dear friend once asked me, “How can others get to know you if you don’t show them who you really are?”
So true! Thank you for your kind remarks 🙂
This article goes straight to the heart and soul of our existence. Congratulations Cathy Holloway Hill & thank you for sharing your brilliance to the world!
Thanks for sharing your exceptional insights Cathy!
Thank you, Cathy:) Without the analogy, it is good enough the message you sent.
Your article just really inspired me. I would love to learn your tools on becoming a inspirational business entrepreneur.You have such words of wisdom. Thank you again for the article, it weighed joyfully on my soul.
Godspeed.
Julie
This article hit me at a time when I need it most! WE ALL need more of this in this chaotic world we live in! Thank you for sharing your incredible gifts! ❤️
Absolutely, so many think they’re worth is in what they do, its actually whats in you. Focus on your purpose, your goals no matter the circumstances. Good word.
Amen! Appreciate your support & kind words 💕
This article touches my soul and has made me whole! I was dealing with a lot today and this helped tremendously! Thank you!
These are huge or great wisdom. Self-reflections and self-questions, that’s all of us need to. Thank you very muc and love:)
Thank you for your kind words!